This is a great idea, because it's easy for us to "like" people, but starting a conversation, now that's scary.there are over 25,000 users with 2,000 new signups every day. It's never easy to be rejected for any reason, but fat women get used to it in their interactions with men sadly because it seems to be more socially acceptable to express disgust with fat than it is express other complaints about a person's physical appearance. But while that's true, all of the fat women in my life have at least one story of men explaining to them that they could never date because of her fatness. None of us have a hard time getting dates, finding love, or sex, whatever it is we happen to be looking for.In our culture, people are taught, unfortunately, that being fat is bad. A fat person is just as worthy of love, respect, and kindness as any other person.First, you can only like a few people a day, unless you invite friends to join the app, an obvious attempt at getting more users.Second, if you don't interact with the user within 48 hours of you both mutually liking each other, the "like" disappears and you lose your opportunity to talk to them, a feature that prevents endless "likes" with no contact.
It is so fascinating how one moment someone is basically begging me to go on a date with them and then the next minute, after I politely turn them down, that it turns so ugly. (“Eat a cheeseburger” memes come to mind.) When you are fat woman online, you get fun stuff like this: (And, I do believe in full disclosure. Just change the name in your contact to “Dick head. He made threats to me” or something like that so you have their telephone number and you NEVER mistakenly answer their call.
I've always wanted to know what goes on inside the heads of men who refuse to date a woman just because she is fat.
On the one hand, as a sex writer, I understand that people are attracted to different things, so I wanted to keep an open mind.
That said, it's hard to be objective when someone is explaining why you don't give them an erection.
With that in mind, I asked a group of anonymous men who refuse to date fat women to try and explain their feelings to me.